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Q I have heard about female ejaculation and would really like to
know how to achieve it. Any pointers? -- Juicy
A Female ejaculation describes the flowing of a mainly clear fluid from the urethra of
women during sexual arousal. It often occurs with G-Spot stimulation and the two are
often inextricably linked. Some women can ejaculate in response to clitoral stimulation
and/or G-spot stimulation and/or penetration, or just when sufficiently sexually excited.
Ejaculation is separate to orgasm though they may occur at the same time. A woman
may ejaculate on arousal, during or after orgasm. Many women have never ejaculated.
It is thought that female ejaculation is caused by the stimulation of the urethral
sponge, the spongy tissue that surrounds the urethra, which has tiny glands that produce
the fluid. During ejaculation this clear fluid may trickle out or gush out with the force of
a tap on full and volume varies from a teaspoon to a cupful.
A common factor amongst women who do ejaculate is well-toned pelvic floor
muscles. Strong contractions of the muscles appear to be involved in ejaculation as well
as in stronger orgasms generally. Good pelvic floor muscles also prevent incontinence
in older age -- a common reason for capable elderly women to be in aged care -- and
prepare the vaginal area before and after giving birth.
Many women confuse ejaculation with unintentional urination and suppress this
entirely natural response through fear of embarrassment. Medical science seems
undecided on the precise make up of female ejaculate, however there is general
consensus that it is not urine. You may want to put a towel on the bed as the amount
of fluid can leave a large "wet spot."
Try relaxing and letting go; if you feel the pressure building you may want to warn
your partner so they can get their mouth out of the way and use fingers or a toy to keep
the stimulation going. Like other body fluids, ejaculate may present a sexual health risk
and we recommend that you take the usual safe sex precautions if you are engaging
in sexual practices where you or your sexual partner may be at risk. Using latex or vinyl
gloves, latex dams (oral sex barrier) and condoms on toys along with water-based
lubricant can reduce health risks.
Female Ejaculation is all about pleasure and sensation. Many of you may have
ejaculated and not realised what was happening. You may want to try it again and
again and again ...
D.VICE has some excellent products and resources on female ejaculation. Two
accessible publications are The G-Spot by Cathy Winks and The Ultimate Guide to
Cunnilingus by Violet Blue. D.VICE sell a simple, low cost and highly effective device
for toning you pelvic floors called Love Balls. Regular use of these quickly tones the
pelvic floor muscles with little effort on you part and they are fun to use. There are some
excellent G-Spot stimulators available -- vibrating and non-vibrating -- such as the
Serpentine, Raspberry Ripple and the Ruby G.
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