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Lifestyle | Advice
Is it time to set boobie boundaries?
Or get a nude attitude?
By lipstick & Dipstick
lipstick: Raquel is a viper
and you should stay away.
Life is hard enough without
snakes trying to poison you
with their venom! You need
to find some new friends,
and while you’re at it, a real
girlfriend (if that is, in fact, what
you want). While Raquel is the
consummate tease, she’s been
clear about what she wants—
nothing serious—so take her
at her word.
Dipstick: Why are you letting
some idiot get in the middle
of your relationship? People
like Piper get their jollies from
destroying other people’s
understands this. Tell her your
lips are sealed, and see if she
believes you. She may just be
using this “she said, she said”
controversy as an excuse to
keep you at a distance. Lipstick
is right—her heart isn’t in this.
If the sex is good, enjoy it and
Bernadette is uncomfortable in
the buff is her issue, not yours.
That said, I do draw the line at
flashing the undercarriage—
especially if it’s your BFF who’s
getting ambushed by your new
Dear lipstick and Dipstick:
i’ve been seeing a girl,
Raquel, for four months, but
she doesn’t want anything
serious. there are days when
she doesn’t pay any attention
to me, and there are days
when she’s really sweet.
We haven’t talked in a week
because one of our friends,
piper, told her that i told her
we had sex. We did, but i
didn’t say anything to anyone.
the contrary is true, actually.
piper gossiped to me about
Raquel, and divulged all kinds
of bad stuff. Now Raquel’s the
one trashing me? i really care
about Raquel. What should i
do? –Tired of Trash Talk
Dipstick: I’m with Jules on
this one. Every Tuesday, I go
to a women and transfriendly
night at my local hot tub place,
and hanging out in the nude
is no big deal. I love it. It’s not
a sexual thing. When I was on
the swim squad in high school,
we all showered together and
had “shaving parties” the night
before a big race. I’ve skipped
around naked at festivals and
love skinny-dipping every
chance I get. Wearing a suit in
a spa is stupid.
lipstick: I am with Jules, too,
because I’m a total naked
nudie. In general, I think folks
are way too uptight about
our original skin. For myself,
beyond hot tubbing, here are
some other things I like to do in
the buff: vacuum, do yoga, take
Dipstick: What? Are you naked
when we’re on the phone?
lipstick: If we aren’t on Skype,
yes. Boundaries, the fact that
Dear Lipstick and Dipstick: I’ve been
dating my girlfriend, Jules, for a few months,
so I decided to invite her on a holiday I’d
planned with Bernadette, a really old friend
of mine. Everything was going great until
we all got in the spa. Jules didn’t bring a
suit, so she hopped in naked. I was naked
too, so I didn’t really think anything of it. But
then Bernadette joined us, and she was in a
modest one-piece. The temperature in the
spa was hot, so Jules decided to sit on the
edge with her legs completely wide open.
I could tell that Bernie was uncomfortable.
I tried to give Jules a “look,” but she was
clueless. Later, I talked to her about it and
she said she was used to nudity and there
was nothing wrong with what she did.
Nudity is one thing, but trying to give my
friend Bernie a pap smear view is another.
Am I wrong?—Boundary Breaker
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